How to treat addictions: curb Narcissism and have kids/pets:
The order of instinctive love is self>kids>parents. 
1. Narcissism gives&worsens addictions: you love yourself so much that you are spoiling yourself & unwilling to discipline but give yourself whatever you want or desire or tempted:
You must learn how to love yourself properly, practice self disciplining & say NO to your wants & desires & tempts.
When desires/temptations fire up, instead of satisfying it immediately, freeze, and understand what it is & how it can damage you, then say No to it. 
Many excuses will rise to defeat you, but you stay your ground: in the past I always drink it, this time, let me try not drink it, if you can dis-addict 1 time then you are a free man, because you are now controlling the addiction not controlled by it!

2. The biggest killer to addiction is your kids:
Only kid's tearful & sad & longing looks can challenge your addictions! 
You were a kid before, you know how bad it hurt you when your alcoholic father abused you&mother.

3. Visit victims or their families which you injured or killed. 
When confronted with poor 5 year old whose mother your drunk driving killed or the 3 kids of a father died of overdose of the drugs you sold to him, your addictions will subside: what have I done?! I will never do it again! 

4. Make friends or live in orphanages/refugee camps/illegal immigrant camps/battered women's shelters/homeless shelters/your employees' apartments:
Who can guarantee your kids won't end up in those pitiful camps/shelters/poor families, then you won't kill/remove/abuse their parents, start to pay affordable wages to their parents who are working for you immediately!

For bullies/rapists/pedifiers/any criminals: the person that you are hurting could be your kids! Who can guarantee your kids won't become preys of predators like you!

If you don't have kids, then you have nobody to save you! 
When you are drunk/drugged, you forget protections,then God send you kids unexpectedly to save you and force you to grow up---amazing grace!

In all human history nobody ever seek to control birth even though condom is ridiculously simple&easy to make, ancient people preyed to have kids, Chinese medicine is all about how to get birth without any mentioning of blocking conceptions, yet US popularized it in 20th century. Imagine if all animals start to have birth control then we will all starve to death & nature will disappear!

Regardless what are the excuses, birth control is clearly anti-nature & anti-God & self-harm: kids keep you busy & stay out of troubles and addictions!

怎样除瘾: 少一些自爱自怜,生孩子:
本能的爱的强度是: 爱自己>爱孩子>爱父母。
1. 爱自己爱过头了就会上瘾: 太爱自己了以至于溺爱,不愿约束自己,极力满足自己的一切合理不合理的需要欲望诱惑。
先学会怎样真确爱自己,练习自我约束,拒绝欲望和诱惑。
当欲火/诱火腾起,冻结手脚,原地不动沉思: 酒除带给我麻烦外没有任何好处,我不应喝它才对。同时无数种借口劝你喝,但你要立场坚定:从来都是喝,这回我就要看看不喝会有什么发生! 只需要胜利1回你就从此从奴隶变成了将军。

2. 你亲生亲爱的孩子可以除掉你的瘾。
眼泪汪汪带着祈求的眼神的可怜的孩子是瘾的最大挑战者。
你曾经也是孩子,有瘾的父亲虐待忽视你让你痛苦不堪,一下子你就会醒悟:我怎么可让我的孩子吃同样的苦呢?

3.和被你伤害的人或死亡家属做朋友:
你酒后驾车撞死5岁女孩的妈妈,你贩的毒让有3个孩子的爸爸失明。看着被你沦为孤儿的可怜无助的孩子们,你怎么可能继续瘾下去呢?

4.去孤儿院/避难营/妇女避暴所/无家可归收留所/你雇工的公寓看看住住:
如果你不戒瘾,你的孩子某一天也会落入那些凄惨的院/所/营/穷家里。赶快给你的雇工发足工资,让他们的孩子有钱吃饭上学看病。 

如果你欺负强奸抢杀打弱者等: 谁能保证别人不会同样来欺负你弱小的女儿呢?

如果你没有孩子,那你是没救星了。
当你在酒醉或毒高中和人迷迷糊糊没有保护地性交时,神就扔给你救生圈让你意外有孩子救你命逼你长大--太神了。

在整个人类历史上从来没有人想去避孕,虽然避孕套简单得连弱智的人都搞得出,但人们一直是祈求生到孩子,中医里尽是加强生育根本没有提到避孕,但美在20世纪把人为避孕发扬光大到世界每一个角落。试想如果所有生物都象人一样开始避孕,那你我都会饿死,自然界消失!

不管理由是什么,避孕是反自然/神,害己的。孩子让你忙得没有时间和钱去搞瘾。

--200726
All your diseases,thoughts,words,actions are inheritable&contagious,all genetic diseases are reversible
No, I was born before my mother had diabetes, but your gene is already sick even though no symptoms yet, if your wife's families also have diabetes, then your kids will double the chance of getting diabetes, if her family doesn't have it, then your kids only have half of your chance of getting diabetes. But if mother's diabetes make you re-think&change your and kids' food drink habit, then you have healed sick gene and it won't pass on to your descendents. i.e. Genetic diseases are 100% reversible&preventable&exterminable, so my father is alcoholic then I must be alcoholic is just an excuse of addicting to alcohol! If you believe in Scientists' nonsense that genetic diseases are not curable then you just suffer needlessly, the truth is any disease can be cured!

Because of disobedience&narcissism&arrogance, we don't like to listen to unpleasant advices, want to be as free as possible, stubborn, don't want to recognize/admit/change our problems,don't like to quit addictions/bad habits,like to marry people with same addictions, that is why at time 0, marrying within the same family had no genetic defects, but now everybody has sick genes, we have to marry outsiders carrying different diseases to avoid same diseases collide to manifest symptoms. Our morals & characters follow the same genetic trend, so modern people are more wicked than old times. Some diseases damage body some damage spirit&mind.

Gene=soul, only God can convert invisible soul to visible physical genes. But human can't change computer 0/1 codes to visible stuff. Every thought/word/action is recorded in genes, at death, physical stuff fall off gene only DNA codes remain, i.e. soul, then Jesus examines it to see whether he can put it in holy heaven or not. That is why in near death experiences people see their ancestors because soul is DNA which links people in the same family together. No wondering merciful loving God created cruel deadly nature where weaker ones are constantly eaten, because after animals played their parts & eaten, their genomes go back to God for future use, when needed, God take out a genome of sheep or angel, and make a live sheep/person and put it in front of you! God made you of course he can do things that you can't imagine,just as phone doesn't know your capabilities. So no need to worry for animals or criticize others but worry yourself!

All diseases originate from: disobedience!

God gave perfect disease/aging/death free soul/DNA to the first human Adam, but Adam was tempted by devil and disobeyed God, So A's DNA is diseased to give aging&death to body. then A's deadly DNA is cloned to all of us. Generations after generations, more and more disobedience, by now, our soul/DNA is the sickest&most defected. Everybody is severely sick, if you believe/follow anybody, you will get his diseases! If you modify DNA you will cause more bugs. Even if you wrote 2d pc software yourself you still can introduce bugs when modifying it not mentioning of modifying somebody else's 4 dimensional code.

Because of disobedience, we were sentenced to death, after repent & change to be obedient, death sentence will be lifted, then we can go back to heaven and live forever. Once in heaven, God will fix all our diseased DNAs.

Regardless where/when/race/nationality/color/ethnicity/etc, only 1 obedience: Love God more than yourself, Love others as yourself. And God gave us human Jesus to follow&learn: Jesus resisted all possible temptations and firmly obeyed God, the short new testament used real Jesus&events to illustrate how/what to obey.  

Jesus died for us doesn't mean we can live,Jesus can't let disobedient you slip into heaven. It is extremely difficult to become obedient or quit an addiction, but if you are willing to repent/change/quit, then you can ask Jesus' help to resist temptations&excuses. If you think nothing is wrong with you, nothing to repent or change, then Jesus has no use for you, and heaven has nothing to do with you! Because you have been wrongfully convicted, why do you want to live in a bad judge's house?

Earth is used for serving your sentence not for enjoyment! Even if you earned whole earthful of money, you won't taste 1 bit of paradise, it is not rational at all that you would indulge in fleeing pleasures at the expense of eternal paradise. Refusal to admit heaven's existence doesn't change the fact that it exists, you can't see heaven doesn't mean it does't exist, you can't see your soul, so you don't have a soul?--must have sold it to devil!

Even if you don't care heaven, but you don't want illness&natural disasters, so get obedient to rid of diseases & bad luck!

怎样除瘾: 少一些自爱自怜,生孩子:
本能的爱的强度是: 爱自己>爱孩子>爱父母。
1. 爱自己爱过头了就会上瘾: 太爱自己了以至于溺爱,不愿约束自己,极力满足自己的一切合理不合理的需要欲望诱惑。
先学会怎样真确爱自己,练习自我约束,拒绝欲望和诱惑。
当欲火/诱火腾起,冻结手脚,原地不动沉思: 酒除带给我麻烦外没有任何好处,我不应喝它才对。同时无数种借口劝你喝,但你要立场坚定:从来都是喝,这回我就要看看不喝会有什么发生! 只需要胜利1回你就从此从奴隶变成了将军。

2. 你亲生亲爱的孩子可以除掉你的瘾。
眼泪汪汪带着祈求的眼神的可怜的孩子是瘾的最大挑战者。
你曾经也是孩子,有瘾的父亲虐待忽视你让你痛苦不堪,一下子你就会醒悟:我怎么可让我的孩子吃同样的苦呢?

3.和被你伤害的人或死亡家属做朋友:
你酒后驾车撞死5岁女孩的妈妈,你贩的毒让有3个孩子的爸爸失明。看着被你沦为孤儿的可怜无助的孩子们,你怎么可能继续瘾下去呢?

4.去孤儿院/避难营/妇女避暴所/无家可归收留所/你雇工的公寓看看住住:
如果你不戒瘾,你的孩子某一天也会落入那些凄惨的院/所/营/穷家里。赶快给你的雇工发足工资,让他们的孩子有钱吃饭上学看病。 

如果你欺负强奸抢杀打弱者等: 谁能保证别人不会同样来欺负你弱小的女儿呢?

如果你没有孩子,那你是没救星了。
当你在酒醉或毒高中和人迷迷糊糊没有保护地性交时,神就扔给你救生圈让你意外有孩子救你命逼你长大--太神了。

在整个人类历史上从来没有人想去避孕,虽然避孕套简单得连弱智的人都搞得出,但人们一直是祈求生到孩子,中医里尽是加强生育根本没有提到避孕,但美在20世纪把人为避孕发扬光大到世界每一个角落。试想如果所有生物都象人一样开始避孕,那你我都会饿死,自然界消失!

不管理由是什么,避孕是反自然/神,害己的。孩子让你忙得没有时间和钱去搞瘾。

--200726
所有病都可遗传可传染,你的一切想言动都遗传传染。所有遗传病都可逆转:
胡说:我妈生完我后才得的糖尿病,如同上瘾一样,你的基因已病变只是还没有症状而已,如果你老公家也有糖尿病那你孩子得糖尿病就是你的两倍,若他家没有糖尿病那你孩子得糖尿病只有你一半,知道妈得了糖尿病赶快检讨改 你和孩子的饮食习惯可逆转糖尿病除掉病的基因,这样你的后代就不会被遗传上。即遗传病是100%可以逆转根除的,所以我爸上瘾,我就一定上瘾是给上瘾找借口,不要迷信科学家的遗传病不可治,什么病都可治!

因人不顺服,愿自高自大,自以为是,无拘无束,为所欲为,爱和臭味相投的人结婚,有瘾不戒,坏习惯不改,固执,忠言逆耳,不愿知错认错,结果把所有的病都加倍遗传给后人,起初近亲结婚不得遗传病,现在却不行了:起初病基因很少,现在100%人都有遗传病,只能靠和得不同病的人生孩子以避免同病相撞显出症状。人的道德品质遵从同样的遗传效应,所以现在人比古人坏多了。有些病破坏感染自己和他人肉体,有些病破坏感染自己和他人精神心灵。

基因=灵魂,只有神能把软件灵魂变成硬件4个碱基,人永远不能把0/1变成硬件, 0/1可以操作硬件,但你显微镜下看不见计算机软件,但灵魂是可见的。我们一辈子的所想言动都记载在基因上,死后,基因脱去物壳只剩下灵魂码,耶稣再检查灵魂看能不能进圣洁的天堂。要么人死后能分辨出自己的祖先,因被基因连在一起。不要纳闷慈悲的神怎么造出如此弱肉强食的残酷大自然,动物们演完戏被吃后基因又回到神的口袋备用,在需要羊或天使的时刻,神拿出羊或人的基因从无到有给你眼前放个羊/天使。你当然无法想象造你的神能力,就如手机无法知道你的能耐一样!所以不要为动物们担心,也不要评头论足别人,赶快担心自己吧。 

所有病都源自:不顺服!

神用完美无病不老不死的灵魂基因造了始祖亚当,但亚被魔鬼诱惑违背神,基因就病变让身体老化死亡,然后亚当的坏基因就遗传给后人,一代一代,不顺服越来越多,积攒至今我们的灵魂是最病最变态的。没有一个没得病的人,你不要听信效法任何人不然会得上他的病。基改会越改越烂。就是你自己写的2维码软件在改时你也会顾此失彼出错更不用提改4维码别人的程序了。

因为不顺服被判了死刑,改过自新顺服了,死刑就没了,可以回天堂永生。回天堂后,神就治好所有病变的基因。
无论时代地点肤色人种等等,一个顺服:爱神胜己,爱人如己。并给了人看摸得见的耶稣去效法:无论怎样地诱惑,耶稣都坚定地顺服神。新约1小时就读完,活生生地展示了顺服什么,怎么顺服。 

虽然耶稣替我们死了但不等于我们就可以活了,耶稣不能让不顺服的你偷偷溜进天堂。变顺服/戒瘾很艰难,一旦你想改过自新,就可让耶稣来帮你抵挡诱惑摆脱无数的借口。如果你认为你完美无病错没有可悔改医治的,那耶稣的死对你一点用都没有,你肯定不想进也进不了那误盼你死刑的神/敌人的家的。 

被人或病虐待的人常责怪神单让无辜的他们吃超常的苦,就以上瘾自杀来逃避。殊不知人人都吃苦受难,地球是用来服刑的不是来避难享乐的,纵使你赚得整世界,也享不到极乐园的一丝乐,一辈子悖逆的,实在是得不偿失,失掉的可是天堂里无病无灾极乐的永生啊,拒绝承认它的存在并不能改变它存在的事实!你看不见它不能说明它不存在,显微镜和望远镜揭示了多少我们看不见却存在的东西。执着地否定只去掉了自己永生的可能性罢了。

即使你不稀罕天堂,但你不愿得病受灾。那就变得顺服些以消灾治病。